In This Issue

President's Message
Next Chapter Meeting Info
Mystery Dinner Evening
Feedback - Offer It Or Not?
Halloween Special for Coaches
What Is It to Be a Coach?

Strategy Meeting Update
Programs – Looking for Speakers


President’s Message

There are a few things I would like to share with you today.

First is our first marketing success at the Womanaire Extraordinaire Conference (WEC) this past Monday and Tuesday. If you let it pass without a thought, let me tell you that you may not wish to do so next year. In a nutshell, the WCE is a working business conference for women, by women where which the participants listen to a business presentation and afterwards over the course of an hour, the groups work with their coaches to move forward in the distinction that was presented (money, business foundation, boards, barriers, confidence, and negotiation). Many of the participants knew nothing about coaching and over the course of two and a half days learned the benefits of coaching. The Sponsors and the Affiliates, which the ICF-OC Chapter was one, were setup in the room for the entire conference and hence the volunteers were able to take advantage of being in the WEC during the entire business-supporting presentations

To read the full message, click here...


Next Chapter Meeting Thursday, November 9

Business Coaching In Excellence Program
5:00 - 6:00pm

HOW THE HECK DO YOU FACILITATE A GROUP?
Presented by: Susan Hansted Kuntz, MA

Running group coaching or peer advisory groups are a great way to grow and sustain your coaching practice.

In this coaching practicum we will discuss the basics of group coaching. This experiential session allows coaches to learn or get a refresher course on the importance of effectively facilitating groups and an opportunity to practice amongst friends!

Take aways include:

  • How to grow your coaching practice with group coaching.
  • A 5-step facilitation process for groups.
  • Pitfalls to avoid with groups.

Headliner Event:
6:30 - 8:30pm

HOW TO ROCKET-LAUNCH YOUR COACHING BUSINESS!
“Why The Widely Used Strategies For Building A Successful Coaching Business Don’t Work, & What To Do Instead For Immediate Results!”
Presented by: Christian E. Mickelsen

There are 7 Myths & Misconceptions that cause coaches to do the wrong things. When we do what most coaches do to grow their businesses, it can cause you to doubt yourself as a coach and take away your power. Many coaches go back to coaching school to get better or quit. This presentation will give you a fresh, new way to look at sales and marketing that will “re-wire” you for passion and excitement about these pieces you may not have enjoyed in the past.

Coaches will learn...

1) What works and what does not work to grow a coaching business.
2) A succesful model for giving free coaching sessions.
3) What causes most of the self doubt coaches face while trying to grow their coaching businesses.
4) Why clients hire coaches.
5) How to make a bigger impact on clients and keep them much longer.

Event Registration Here


MYSTERY DINNER EVENING

What do BAMBI the honorary elf, SVEN GAHLLY the reindeer wrangler, PROF. GIZMO the toy inventor, MRS. RIVERS Santa’s housekeeper and LAUGHLIN KOFFIN Santa’s newly hired P.R. guy have to do with murder at the North Poll?

On Thursday, December 14th you’ll be able to help sort things out as all are caught up in the murderous events of... The “In-Santa-ty Claus”!.

Stay tuned for more ‘mysterious’ news of our Chapter’s holiday party…


The Reflection Room
Articles by ICF-OC Chapter Participants

Feedback – Should You Give It When You Don’t Have To?
by Nahid Casazza
www.aspyrre.com

I’m reading a book called Crucial Conversations, which is all about how to handle those tricky yet critical conversations that make a huge difference in how easily we get to where we want to go in life. These conversations include things like giving the boss negative feedback, handling an uncomfortable situation with a neighbor, or breaking bad news to someone you really care about. I’m only in the first couple of chapters, and so far the book is great, but it brought up many questions, and one in particular involves avoiding giving other people feedback.

When is it ok to avoid giving feedback? My guess is that many times, the reason conversations become crucial is because stuff has been brewing and left un-talked about. On the other hand, there may be situations where it’s actually better to let things go.

Here are some guidelines to follow


Halloween Special for Coaches
by Philip H. Henderson, Ethical Magician
www.leaderswithintegrity.com

October marks the start of autumn. Picture autumn in your mind’s eye. Shorter daylight hours. Warm fireplaces. Major League Baseball World Series. Falling leaves. Indian Summer nights. However, nothing signals autumn more than the goings on that take place on Halloween night.

When the ghosts and hobgoblins hover around your home or place of work, take some time to think about the magic you perform daily as a coach. You unmask the faces of your clients so all who love them can appreciate their true beauty. You chase away the demons that prevent your clients from achieving their best every day.

What mask are you wearing this Halloween?


My Two Cents Worth

What Is It to Be a Coach?
by Beth Griffith, CPCC
www.bethgriffith.com

I sat there staring at him, watching his chest move up and down with each labored breath. The sting in my eyes was from a combination of tears and sleep deprivation. Although his eyes were closed, I could see them moving back and forth behind his eyelids. His body jerked occasionally; his dreams could not have been peaceful. I felt helpless, sad, and frightened. Here was my closest friend lying in a hospital bed with only the sound of the heart monitor keeping us company. Where? When? Why? How? All imaginable questions popped into my aching head as I tried to gain clarity of the situation. After all, I’m a life coach, and I should know how to handle this.

If I was coaching me, what would I ask ?


Strategy Meeting Update
(from Nahid Casazza, 2007 President – Elect)

We had a very successful strategy meeting last Wednesday to prepare for our 2007 year. Twelve participant coaches attended and many more wanted to attend. We have formed teams around our biggest initiatives for the year, and would like to encourage ALL Orange County ICF-participants to get involved. A great place to start is to take a couple of minutes to read the overview of what we talked about - click here to see a draft document of the notes.

2007 Chapter Programs – Looking for Speakers

We are currently planning programs for our 2007 meetings, including Headliner events, BCE programs, optional teleclasses, and program certifications. Please contact Lydia Welton or Nahid Casazza if you would like to recommend a speaker or program in one or more of the following categories:

  • New coaching skills, tools, or approaches
  • Business development, marketing, or sales
  • Coach success stories or inspirational personalities
  • Foundational coaching skills

Your input is important in creating successful and relevant programs!


International Coach Federation - Orange County Chapter
P.O. Box 19213
Irvine, CA 92623-9213

(877) 377-8039
(646) 219-6085 fax

info@icforangecounty.org

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All rights reserved.

 

October 2006

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- Beth Griffith - Publications Director


Chapter News

Election Ballots Arriving Soon

Elections will be held in November 2006 (with chapter participants voting) and new officers installed in January 2007.


ICF-OC Book Club

What are you reading these days? Our coaches are certainly passionate about the books they are reading for inspiration as a coach! If you are looking for an opportunity to share in that experience, come join in our next book club discussion– we’d love to hear what you have to say.

Date: November 8th, 2006
Book: Overcoming Life’s Disappointments by Harold S. Kushner.

Book Club Information Here


Coaching Workshop

Facilitated by Nahid Casazza

At the October BCE I led a practicum on “Articulating the Value of Coaching.” If four or more coaches are interested, I'd be happy to create a 3-hour workshop designed to walk you fully through the process of creating a sales dialogue that is powerful, yet comfortable for you. The price of the workshop would run $195 per person. Send an e-mail to nahid@aspyrre.com and let me know of your interest, and if we get enough people we'll set a date that works with your schedule.

For me, changing my "enrollment conversation" so it felt like the truth instead of a flimsy sales pitch was the turning point in my coaching practice. If you feel awkward or uncomfortable when talking with potential clients, they probably pick up on it. Going through this process could make the difference for you as well.


Alliance Partners

NAWBO-OC

For information on their meetings, go to NAWBO-OC.

PCMA - Orange County

For information on their meetings, go to PCMA-Online

To Register, ICF-OC Chapter Participants should call
1-800-979-7262 and
ask for ICF-OC Affiliate Pricing

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ICF- Los Angeles

Visit ICFLA.ORG web site for event details.

Contact Info:
Programs
310-242-6432
Fax: 310-242-6432
programs@icfla.org

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ASTD-OC

For information on ASTD visit ASTDOC.org